Involve your family early
Let your wali or a trusted family member know who you are speaking to. Islam encourages family involvement, and it is also the best protection against deception.
Never send money
No genuine match will ask you for money, gifts, bank details or help with visas, customs fees or medical bills. Report anyone who does, immediately.
Keep personal details private at first
Do not share your home address, workplace, financial details or private photos. Use Weds.me messages until you are confident the person is genuine.
Meet in public, with family
When you meet, choose a public place and bring a mahram or family member. Tell someone where you are going.
Verify what you are told
Ask about education, work and family, and check that the answers are consistent. A video call with family present is a good step before meeting.
Signs to watch for
- Pressure to move to another app or to keep things secret from family
- Stories that change, or refusal to speak by phone or video
- Requests for money or financial help for any reason
- Rushing towards marriage without involving either family
Report and block
Every profile has a "Report or block" option. Reports go straight to our team. You can also contact us with the profile ID. If you are in danger, contact your local police.